Iseshoni Yokuqala Yobumedi (Mediumship) Ngenxa Yosizi

Yintoni okufanele uyiqonde

Ubumedi (mediumship) ngenxa yosizi yahluke ngokupheleleyo kukuxela amathamsanqa. Injongo yomfundi kuphela kukuseka unxibelelwano nomntu othandekayo oswelekileyo kwaye adlulise nantoni na leyo ngqondo ikhetha ukuyinxibelelana. Musa ukulindela ukuba iseshoni iqhubeke njengomboniso we-seance yase-Hollywood. Imiyalezo idla ngokufika kwiinxalenye — igama lesidlaliso elalisetyenziswa lusapho lwakho kuphela, inkumbulo ethile, imvakalelo yesifo somzimba umntu awayenaso ebomini. Ummedi usenokuchaza iimpawu zomzimba, iimpawu zobuntu, okanye abhekisele kwiziganeko abengenakuzazi kwaphela. Kuya kubakho namaxesha okungaqiniseki, apho ummedi esebenzela ukucacisa imbono engaphelelanga. Usizi lunokwenza ukuba sikhangele amagama athile okanye izicelo zoxolo ezinokungafiki kule seshoni. Into efikayo idla ngokuba yinto engalindelekanga kwaye, kubantu abaninzi, yinto kanye ababedinga ukuyiva. Iiseshoni zithatha imizuzu engama-30 ukuya kwengama-60.

Indlela yokulungiselela

Zinike iintsuku ezimbalwa zendawo yeemvakalelo phambi kokubhukisha. Ukuzama ubumedi ngexesha lobunzima obukhulu — iveki yomngcwabo, umzekelo — kunokwenza kube nzima ukufumana unxibelelwano ngokucacileyo kuba usizi luthintela ukwamkela. Phatha ifoto yomntu ukuba iqonga lisebenzisa ividiyo, kodwa musa ukuziva unyanzelekile ukuba wabelane ngayo kwangaphambili. Yiba neenkumbulo okanye amabinzana amabini athile engqondweni ekungaziwa ngumntu oswelekileyo kuphela, ukuze ube nendlela yokuqinisekisa ngokuyimfihlo ukuchaneka. Gcina iitishu kufutshane. Zivumele ukuba uzive nantoni na evelayo ngaphandle kwamahloni. Ummedi uhleli nabathengi abaninzi abasentlungwini.

Imiyalelo ephantsi abaqala abaninzi

Ezi zizinto ezikhululekileyo abantu abaninzi abenza ngani kuqala iseshoni yokuqala yobumedi (mediumship) ngenxa yosizi — ukwazi ngaphambili kwenza isiphumo esinento:

• Ukulindela ukuba iseshoni izise ukuvalwa kwesahluko ngendlela incoko yokugqibela ebeyiya kwenza ngayo
• Ukubhukisha kwangoko emva kokufa phambi kokuba uzinike uzinzo lweemvakalelo
• Ukubonelela ngolwazi olunzulu lwangaphambili phambi kokuba ufundi uqale, nto leyo esusa amandla ommedi okubonisa iinkcukacha ezibonakalayo zokwenyani
• Ukungahoyi imiyalezo echanekileyo ngokuyinxalenye njengokusilela endaweni yokuyithatha njengomsebenzi oqhubekayo
• Ukufuna iiseshoni eziphindaphindwayo kwiiveki ezilandelayo njengendlela yokuthatha indawo yocweyo losizi okanye inkxaso yoluntu

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