Ukuthi okwenzekayo
Le yiyo loo nto engaphakathi kwaye inokuba yinkinga ekucacisa ngayo kakhulu phakathi kwezimpawu zokufa: ukwazi ngokungathandabuzi, ukwazi okhuthaza, okungafunyenwa. Akuzo kubekho nto yokuqonda okanye yokuphendula ekukholwayo, nangona ingakuhambelana nayo. Akuzo kubekho nto yokuphendula okanye isithandabuzo. Ukwazi — okukhuthaza, okungaphandle, okungathandabuzi — ukuba uhlala kwakho ngoku le nto iyinxalenye yencwadi ende eyayiqale ngaphambi kokuba lo mzimba wawubone, yayo izakuhlala ngokuhlwa emva kokuba umzimba wawuphela. Iphawula kakhulu ngamaxesha okungakhange kwenzeka khona: ekhala emaphandleni, ekhathaza ngezinto ezinexabiso, ekubona abantwana abancinci kakhulu okanye abakhulu kakhulu. Ngale maxesha, iqondo elingaphandle lokuphila okwamanje kunye nezinye ixesha lihluleka ukuhlula, ufumana ukuzwana, ngaphandle kokubona, ubunzulu loko ozibekileyo. Abantu abanokwazi okokuba babe nenzulo ezininzi, baye ngokupheleleyo ngokuziphatha ngokwahlukileyo — ukwazi ukuba nto okungalungelanga inethuba, inethuba yonke imihla, iyokubonana kwakhona ngenye indlela xa akugqibelelwa ngoku. Akuzo kubekho ukuphumela; yiyo inhliziyo eyazi ukuba iyakuhlala iyohlukileyo.
Ukuhlaziywa okwezulu
Akuzo kubekho wonke umoya obanokwazi okufanayo kokuziphatha kwakhe. Abantu abanokwazi ukuba babe nenzulo ezininzi, baye ngokupheleleyo ngokuziphatha kwakhe — abantu ababefikelele ekupheleni kwezithuba zokuhlala kwakhe — abantu abanokwazi ukuba babe nenzulo ezininzi, abanokwazi ukuba babe nenzulo ezininzi. Olu lwazi olungaphakathi akuzo kubekho nto yokuphendula okanye nto yokuphendula okanye nto yokuphendula. Olu lwazi lwenzeka ngoba inhliziyo iyayiphila ngexesha elide, yayo ubunzulu obuninzi buhluleka ukuziqhelanisa nalo kwakho ukuphila okwamanje.
Ukuba unobhokholi wezithuthiwe ungakunceda njani
Umchuleli ohloniphekileyo ekufundeni ngamanye amaxesha okwamanje kunye neakashic records ungasiza ekufumana nasekukhuthaza izinto ezithile zencwadi ende enhliziyo yakho eyazi ukuba iyayiphila. Ngaphandle kokuba uhlale nalo lwazi njengezinto ezingekho, umchuleli ohloniphekileyo ungasincedisa ekukhuthaza ngamanye amaxesha, izinto ezithile zokuziphatha, izinto ezithile zokuziphatha, izinto ezithile zokuziphatha — ekukhuthaza ulwazi olungqongileyo olungakwazi ukukhuthaza uhlobo lwakho lokuphila okwamanje.