Ukuthi okwenzekayo
Abasebenzi, abahlobo, okanye abahlali bachaza ukuba uthetha ngenkathazo kwiilwimi ezihlonipheka ezinokwenzeka — kodwa hayi naluphi ulwimi onalo ukuqonda, futhi hayi naluphi olwakho okanye olwaziwe ngale ndalo. Ngamanye amaxesha ulwimi luyaziwa njengolwimi olungapheli okanye olungapheli. Amagama afana, hayi ukukhohlakala, futhi ngamanye amaxesha zibonisa ukuphatha okukhuthaza — ukukhuthaza, ukunyaniseka, okanye ukukhumbula. Le nto iyahlukileyo kwezinto ezinokwenzeka ngokukhuthaza kokuzwa okufunyanwa ngezamaxesha. Ngokuphela kokulala, umqondo wokuzwa olufunyaniswa ngokufunda okwenziweyo futhi ulwimi olwaziweyo lulahlekelwa. Okuphuma ngalo kungenzeka ukuba yimfihlo yokuphila okwedlule apho leyo lwimi yayingumgca wokuphela wokuphela wokuphela wokuphela wokuphela wokuphela. Umzimba owaziyo leyo mazwi yayingowakho ngesikhathi esingaphezu.
Ukuhlaziywa okwezulu
Ulwimi luhlobo olukhuthaza kakhulu inhliziyo, ngoba luyindlela apho impilo yonke yokuphila, ukukhumbula, ukukhumbula, futhi ukukhumbula kwakho yahlukileyo. Ukwazi ulwimi lwedlule akukho yimpumelelo — yindlela apho impilo yonke yokuphila, ukukhumbula, futhi ukukhumbula kwakho yahlukileyo. Okuphuma ngalo kungenzeka ngokuphela kokulala apho umqondo wokuzwa wokuphela wokuphela wokuphela wokuphela wokuphela.
Ukuba unobhokholi wezithuthiwe ungakunceda njani
Umchuleli wokuzalwa okwedlule angaqondakisa inhlangano apho leyo lwimi iphuma kuyo, ulwazi lwezizwe nezizwe apho leyo lwimi yayihambisana nayo, futhi indima leyo impilo iphezu kwakho. Ukuba ulwimi luyaziwa, anikeze ulwazi olungakhethekileyo lwezizwe. Ukuba alaziwa, angafikelela kwiirekhodi zokuzalwa okwedlule ukuze achaze impilo futhi ulwazi lwezizwe apho leyo mazwi ahlala ngenkathazo.