Isethulo
Ukuthatha isithunzi yinkqubo eyenziwa ngabantu abangafani nge 'amathusi' ukwenza ukuthi kubonakale njengokuba abantu abanobuchule obungafani ngezinto ezingekho ngokusemthethweni ekukhuthaza ngokukhethekileyo, ukukhangela kakuhle izimvo zezakhamzi, kunye nokusebenzisa izinto ezingaziwa, ezimnandi, okanye ezithileyo ezithandwa yonke indalo. Kufuneka sizazi ukuba ukuthatha isithunzi yinkqubo eyodwa—hayi isichazamazwi sokuba 'zonke izicelo zokuthatha isithunzi zingafani'. Abafundi abanokuthi abanobuchule kwi platform ezifana ne Kasamba, Keen, California Psychics, Purple Garden, kunye ne Psychic Source bafumana ukuhlolwa kwakho ukukhuthaza ukukhetha abafundi abasebenzisa kakhulu ezi nkqubo. Nangona kunjalo, akukho naluphi uhlolwa olungafani. Ukwazi izinto ezithile ezikhombisa ukuthatha isithunzi zikunika amandla okukhetha ukukhetha, ukuhlukunyezwa, kunye nokukhetha abafundi abangafani ngezinto ezingafani.
Ihlelo Lokwenza ngokuze kube ngokupheleleyo
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Jonga izixhobo eziphezulu ezingathandwa kwi phakathi kwesikhathi esingekho kwisesshoni. Abafundi abathatha isithunzi bayacela ukuthi baphinde babelane ngamagama akhethekileyo aphumelelayo kwi bantu abaninzi: 'Ndiyazwa ukuba kuninzi okhoyo okanye okungafani ekupheleni kwakho', 'Ndizwa ukuba kunokho inkathalo yomama ngakho', okanye 'Ndiyazwa ukuba kunokho okungafani ngezinto zokupheka'. Ezi ziganeko zizizinto ezithile kodwa zisetyenziswa kwi bantu abaninzi. Umfundi onobuchule uyakhetha ukunika iziphumo ezithile kwaye ezingafani nokuphendula.
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Jonga izixhobo zika Barnum—iziphumo ezikhulu kangangoko zithandwa yonke indalo. Izikhombisi eziklasikhi: 'Ndizwa ukuba ngani ukuhlukunyezwa ngabantu abaninzi ekupheleni kwakho', 'Une tendency yokuba unzima kakhulu kuwe kune abanye', 'Une unyuso olungafani okanye olungafikelekanga olungafani'. Ezi ziganeko zizizinto ezithandwa yonke indalo. Umfundi onobuchule kufuneka akunike iziphumo ezithile kwaye ezingafani nokuphendula.
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Jonga ukuthatha isithunzi ngokukhethekileyo emva kwiziphumo ezingaziwa. Umfundi othatha isithunzi uyakhetha ukubona izimvo zakho emva kwiziphumo ezikhulu kwaye ukuze ahlulele ngokukhethekileyo. Ukuba uthi 'ewe' okanye ubonisa ukubonakalisa, bawukhuthaza. Ukuba ubonisa ukungabonakali okanye uthi 'Andizange ndazi', bawukhetha. Ezi nkqubo—ziphumo ezikhulu, ukuhlulelana, ukuhlulela ngokukhethekileyo—ayikho kwi nkqubo yokuphendula ngokusemthethweni, apho iziphumo ezithile zifike ngaphambi kokukhuthaza kwakho.
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Hlola ukuba yintoni ekuveliswe ngokuzithandela kune ekuveliswe ngumfundi ngokwakhe. Ngaphambi kwaye ngexesha lesesshoni, bhala zonke izinto othe wazixelela (igama lakho, umbuzo wakho, okanye konke othe wazixelela). Ukuze uhlolwe ukuba zonke izinto 'ezithile' ezithetha umfundi zingatholwa kwakho. Ukuthatha isithunzi okusemthethweni kwenziwa ngokunikeza iziphumo ozange wazixelela okanye ozange wazibona.
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Dlulisa ukuthatha isithunzi ngokukhethekileyo. Emva kwesiphumo esingaziwa, nikeza impendulo eminye, emnandi, emncinci ('Ndiyabona,' okanye 'hamba'), kwaye ungaboni okanye ungaboni. Umfundi othatha isithunzi uyakhetha ukuthatha iziphumo ezinye okanye ukukhetha okunye. Umfundi onobuchule uyakhetha ukuthatha iziphumo ezithile ngaphandle kokukhuthaza kwakho, ngoba bayakhetha ukuthatha isithunzi, hayi izimvo zakho.
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Bheka kakhulu ukuthatha isithunzi ngokukhuthaza ukukhathazeka. Abafundi abathatha isithunzi abangafani nge 'amathusi' bayacela ukuthi babelane ngamagama akhethekileyo emva kwesesshoni yokuqala, ngokuxwayisa ngamandla anegazi, okanye izinto ezingafani nokuphila okanye ukukhathazeka okanye izinto ezingafani. Akukho naluphi uhlobo lwalo kwi izicelo ezinobuchule kwi platform ezinobuchule. Naluphi umfundi othethe ngakho kufuneka ukhethe, uhlule, kunye nokubika.
Iziphumo zokuziphumelela
Iziphumo zokuqala zomfundi onobuchule kufuneka ziquka okokuba yinto eyakho okanye eyakhethekileyo. Ukuba zonke iziphumo zingatholwa kwakho, hluleka ukuhlonipha isesshoni.
Abafundi abanobuchule kwi platform ezifana ne Psychic Source kunye ne California Psychics bafumana ukuhlolwa kwakho ukukhuthaza ukukhetha abafundi abanobuchule—ukuhlolwa kwakho kuxhomekeke ekukhetheni abafundi abathatha isithunzi kune abanobuchule. Oku akukho ukukhuthaza ukuba bonke abafundi, kodwa kusho ukuba isiseko sokuphucula siphakamile kune platform ezingafani.
Hlalele isesshoni yakho. Bhala ukuba umfundi wathini ngaphandle kokuba wabhekisisa okanye wabhekisisa. Ukubuka le nkqubo emva kweintsuku okanye iintsuku ezimbini, ngaphandle kokukhathazeka kwesesshoni, yenza ukuba zikhangeleke ngokucacileyo kune ngexesha lesesshoni.
Ukuba ucinga ukuba umfundi usebenzisa izixhobo zokuthatha isithunzi, bika ngokusebenzisa isistimu yokuphendula kwakho kwi platform. Oku kuhlala abanye abasebenzisi kunye nokunikeza iqela lokuphucula kunye nezo zinto ezithile, ezikwazi ukwenza.
Ukuba Le Platform Ayisebenzi Kakhulu Kuyo
Ukuba isesshoni yokuphatha isithunzi yilele wena ukungafani nge 'amathusi' kwi webhu, inkqubo yokuqala yase California Psychics—eyakho ukuhlolwa ngumntu oqeqeshelweyo—iyakho ukukhetha abafundi abanobuchule kune abathatha isithunzi. I 2% yokuqala yasebenza ngokukhetha abafundi abanobuchule kune abathatha isithunzi. Ukuthatha isesshoni entsha kwi advisor yase California Psychics emva kokungafani nakuphi na kwi platform enye yenza ukuba ufumane iziphumo ezithile.