Ukuba Ngani Le Nkohlakalo Isebenza Kanjani
Iziphumo zokukhathazeka zikuhleli nzulu ekukhuthaza ukuthanda ukungena emihlomulweni. Umsizi wokwazi angakuthi athi ubonile inkqubo engapheliyo yempilo ekhoyo, ingozi yemoto eyakukhona, ukushintsha okungapheliyo kokhuseleko lomnwe, okanye ukufa ngaphakathi kwesikhathi esithile. Iziphumo zikhuthaza ukukhathazeka ngokupheleleyo. Uma ukhathazeka, ukwazi kokwenza izigqibo ziqhuba ngokukhawuleza. Umsizi wokwazi uthi ukuthi imihlomulo eminye iyakukhuthaza — xa uqhuba ukuzibuza, ngokukhawuleza bayakwazi ukuhlola izinto zokukhuthaza. Abanye bayeza, bathi bayakwazi ukwenza imisebenzi yezemvelo ekukhuthaza ukukhuthaza. Ukukhuthaza kokuphuma kwemali kungakhethwa imihla okanye iminyaka ngoba umntu okhathazekileyo uhlala ekhathazekileyo: uma uhluleka ukuzibuza futhi kwenzeka into engalungileyo, uyakukhathaza ngakho. Le ndlela iyafana nokuphonsa. Akukho mntu ohloniphekileyo oza kusetshenziswa iziphumo zokukhathazeka ukukhuthaza umthengisi, futhi inkqubo yokwenza iziphumo zokukhathazeka zibonisa ukuba umfundi wenza lokhu akukho nzulu ukuze akhuthaze, kodwa ukuze akhuthaze.
Izimpawu Zokuvumelana
- Umfundi wenza iziphumo zokufa, ukugula okukhulu, okanye inkululeko ngokupheleleyo
- Uthi imihlomulo eminye iyafuneka ukuze ukuvikelwe inkululeko
- Iziphumo zikukhuthaza okukhulu kangangoko uhluleka ukuhluleka ukuhluleka ukuhluleka
- Uthi ungaxoxi naba bantu abanye abangakwazi ukukhuthaza ekubeni ungabuyi
- Ixesha eliphezulu lishintsha — inkululeko iyakukhona kodwa ayikho
- Uthi unalo amandla okukhuthaza okanye okanye ekukhuthaza ekukhuthaza ekukhuthaza
Ukuba Inkqubo Ehloniphekileyo Iboneka Kanjani
Abafundi abahloniphekileyo bangakwazi ukuthola iziphumo zokugula, inkqubo ezinzima ezakukhona, okanye ixesha elinzima elizayo. Ukungahlobani kwenye into kanye nokukhuthaza. Umfundi ohloniphekileyo uhlala ekukhuthaza ukuthi izinto zingakhethwa ngokukhawuleza, uhlala ekunikezela ngokunceda, futhi uhlonipheke ekukhuthaza ukuthi umntu akwazi ukwenza izigqibo zakhe. Ungakwazi ukuthi uthi 'Ndiyibona inkqubo yempilo ekhoyo ekubeni umama wakho — kungenzeka kufuneka umkhuthaze ukuba aye ekliniki' kunye noma 'Umama wakho uza kugula ngaphakathi kwemihla emithathu.' Abafundi abahloniphekileyo bayazi ukuba indima yabo iyakukhuthaza, hayi ukukhuthaza. Bayazi futhi ukungapheliyo kokwazi okwabo kokwazi, futhi bayakwazi ukuthi iziphumo zingakhethwa ngokukhawuleza.
Yintoni Ekuyokwenziweni
Qaphela ukuba akukho mntu ohloniphekileyo oza kusetshenziswa iziphumo zokukhathazeka ezihleli ekukhuthaza ukungena emihlomulweni. Gqibezela ukuhlangana naye. Uma iziphumo zokugula ezikhuthazekileyo, zihlale zikhuthazekileyo, zihlale zikhuthazekileyo — bona ugqirha, hlala ekliniki — kunye noma emihlomulweni yezemvelo. Xoxa nomntu owakho ozizwileyo ngani eyenzekayo; ukukhathazeka nokukhathazeka kuyakukhuthaza abantu ekuthatheni inxaxheba le, kodwa ukuxoxa ngokungaqiniseki kubhubha isithunzi. Bhala umfundi ephatfomeni futhi uyeke iinkcukacha ezithile ukuze uvikela abanye abasebenzisi.
Thatha Ufumanele Uphoyisi Oqwalaselweyo
Ukuphepha okukhulu kakhulu ngokushaya kukusebenzisa izikhungo ezilawulayo abaqhubi babo abahloniphekileyo nokuphuhlisa ukuziphatha kwezinto ezinikela ekhuthaza ukukhuthaza.
Hlola Uphoyisi Ohloniphekileyo