Ukuhluleka kwezinto ngokususa ukuqonda
Yinxalenye engapheleleyo yokuzwakalisa ngokususa ukuqonda kwezinto ezithile. Iinkonzo ezidlulileyo ngeminyaka emininzi zingakuba zingalunganga. Iziphetho ezithandana zingakuba zinezinto ezingapheliyo. Abantu abahlala ekhaya bangakwazi ukuphendula kuwe ngokungakwazi ukuqonda, ngokukhathazeka, okanye ngokungavumelani. Iinkonzo ezingalunganga ngokususa ukuqonda azikho ngokwahlukileyo — zizinto ezakhiwe ngokusekelwa kwizifundo zakho ezindala, nangoko, njengoko le mfundo iyadlula, iinkonzo ezakhiwe ngokusekelwa kuyo zizakuba nezona zidinga ukuphinda zihluleke okanye zingalunganga. Akuyi nto elungileyo. Ukulahleka kwezinto ngokususa ukuqonda kungakuba sengathi unqulo lwenyaniso luthatha yonke into kuwe. Kodwa iinkonzo eziphila ngokususa ukuqonda zizakuba zizinto ezakhiwe ngokusekelwa kwezinto ezingundoqo, okanye ezinye izinto ezilungileyo okanye ezingalunganga.
Izimpawu & Izimpawu
Lezi zizimpawu ezithiwa zikhona kakhulu ezinye izinto ezihambelana nazo nge- ukuhluleka kwezinto ngokususa ukuqonda:
- Ukuphelisa okanye ukungaboni kwakho kwezinkonzo ezide ngoba uthola ukuba unayo into enguqulwe
- Ukukhathazeka okukhulu kwakho kweziphetho ngoba izinto ozithandayo nendlela ozibona ngayo ziyadlula
- Abantu abahlala ekhaya bangakwazi ukuphendula ngokungakwazi ukuqonda, ngokukhathazeka okanye ngokukhathazeka ngokubona izinto ezahlukileyo ekuhlalweni kwakho
- Ukucaphukiswa ngabantu ababengakwazi ukuqonda ngokwaneleyo
- Ukungafuni kwakho kwakho kwakho eziqoqweni ezakhiwe ngokusekelwa kwakho
- Ukubona ngokungaqondakaliyo ukuba abantu abathandayo bangakwazi ukuhamba nakuwe apho uya khona
Kwenzeka ntoni ngokomoya?
Iinkonzo zizinto ezihambelana nezinto ezithile. Zakhiwa ngokusekelwa kwiinkqubo ezifanayo, indlela ozibona ngayo, iinkolo, nokuphatha okufanelekileyo. Xa indlela yakho iyadlula — njengoko iyenzeka ngokususa ukuqonda — izinto ezakhiwe ngokusekelwa kwakho ziya kuhluleka. Ezinye iinkonzo zingakwazi ukuphinda zihluleke; ezinye azikwazi. Ezingakwazi ukuphinda zihluleke zizinto ezazikhethelele ekuba uhlala ngezinto ezithile, indlela ozibona ngayo, okanye isazela sokuziphatha. Xa uhluleka, inkqubo ekhoyo yale nkonzo iyahluleka, ngenye into umntu angakwazi ukuphendula ngokungakwazi ukuqonda okanye ukukhathazeka ngoba ukuhluleka kwakho kuyaphazamisa isazela esakhethelele yomntu.
Njani ukuhamba ngalokhu?
Lilala iinkonzo ezingalunganga. Ungazi ukuba zingapheleleyo. Vumela wena ukuzonwabisa abantu abangakwazi ukuhamba nakuwe, nangoko, ungena kwezinto ezingalunganga. Xelela ngokucopheleleyo nangokunyaniseka ngezinto ozithandayo, kodwa ungena kwezinto ezingakwazi ukuqonda. Ungazazi abantu abangenakho ukuqonda — ukukhuthaza abanye abantu ukuba baqonde ngokususa ukuqonda kuyalungisa umbuso. Hlala ngezinto ezitsha nezinto ezifanayo nezinto ozithandayo. Iinkonzo ezizakhiwa ngokususa ukuqonda — ezakhiwe ngokusekelwa kwakho okungundoqo — zizakuba zingapheleleyo, zingcono, nzulu kunazo zonke ezingalunganga.
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