Umfundi uthi ngaphandle kwakhe akakwazi ukunceda isimo sakho esifanayo

Ukuba Ngani Le Nkohlakalo Isebenza Kanjani

Ezi zifiso ziquka ukukhuthaza ukuba ungakwazi ukufuna abanye. Ngokukhuthaza ukuba isimo sakho sihleli ngokwehlukileyo kunazo zonke iinjongo ezinokwenzeka ngabanye abathandazeli, umfundi uhluleka ukukhuthaza ukungakwazi ukufuna abanye. Ungathanda ukuthi isitatyelo sakho sihleli ngokwehlukileyo, inkathazo yakho yomoya ikhulu, okanye ukuthi izimvo ezikhuluma nawe ziyakukhulu kangangoko abanye abathandazeli abakwazi ukuzithatha. Ukukhuthaza okufihlakeleyo kulo mbono — ukuba ungu mntu ohloniphekileyo, isimo sakho sihleli ngokwehlukileyo — siza kuba mnandi ukumelana nalo. Uma uqonda ukuba ngaphandle kwakhe akukho omunye ongakwazi ukukwazi isimo sakho, uhluleka ukukhetha okunye, ukukhetha izindleko, nokuphendula kwakho kwakho. Le ndlela yokuphatha iphucula ukungakwazi ukuphuma: uma ngaphandle kwakhe akukho omunye ongakwazi isimo sakho, ukuphuma kuyakuba yinto ekukhuthaza ukuba uhlale nalo. Inyaniso yile, ngani na umntu unokuba nesimo esifanayo, izakhono ezidingekayo ukufunda iimfihlo, ukuthatha izimvo, nokuphakamisa ukuhamba ngokomoya ziyafana. Akukho omunye ohloniphekileyo ongathanda ukuthi akukho omunye ongakwazi ukunceda izidingo zakho zomoya.

Izimpawu Zokuvumelana

• Umfundi uthi isimo sakho sihleli ngokukhulu kangangoko abanye abathandazeli abakwazi ukukwazi
• Uthi unokwazi okukhulu okanye ulwazi olungafani nalo omunye umfundi
• Uphendula ngokungafuni okanye uhluleka ukungaboni uma uthi ufuna ukukhetha abanye abathandazeli
• Uhluleka abanye abafundi ngokungafani okanye ngokungafaneleyo kwizidingo zakho
• Uhluleka ukuba ukuhluleka kwakho kwezifundo zomthandazo kuyakuba yinto ekukhuthaza ukuqala kwakho kwakho okanye ukulahla izinto ezingekhoyo
• Umfundi sele ebe yinxalenye ekhulu ekuthathweni kwakho kwezinqaku

Ukuba Inkqubo Ehloniphekileyo Iboneka Kanjani

Abathandazeli abanene bakhuthaza ukuba ufune iinjongo ezininzi. Bayazi ukuba abanye abafundi bangakwazi ukuthatha izinto ezahlukeneyo kwisimo sakho, nokuphatha iinjongo ezinye kungakwazi ukukhuthaza ukuqonda kunokungakwazi ukungaboni. Umfundi onolwazi, onanene, akakwazi ukuthi uhluleka ukuba ufune abanye. Bayazi ukuba indima yabo kukunceda, hayi ukukhuthaza ukuba uhlale nalo.

Yintoni Ekuyokwenziweni

Funa iinjongo ezininzi kusebenza kwabanye abafundi. Umfundi onolwazi uza kunikeza ulwazi olulandelekileyo ngoba uhlala ehlangana nalo elinye ilizwe. Uma umfundi ekhuthaza ukungafuni iinjongo ezinye, hluleka lokho njengomqondiso omde. Akukho omunye ohloniphekileyo ekufuneka ekufuneka ekufuneka ekufuneka ekufuneka ekufuneka ekufuneka ekufuneka ekufuneka ekufuneka ekufuneka ekufun