Ukucotha Ukukhuthaza Ukukhuthaza Kwezokucotha
Ukukhuthaza ukukhuthaza kwezokucotha yindlela yokucacisa ngokubonisa ukukhuthaza okukhethekileyo ukukhuthaza okungakhuthazi okungenanto okungahambelani nokuphatha kwakho okanye ukukhuthaza kwakho emva kokuphela kokudibanisa, kokwenzekayo, okanye isigaba somhlaba esiphelileyo. Ngaphandle kokunye nkqubo yokuphuma, ukukhuthaza ukukhuthaza yindlela yokwenza okukhethekileyo ekhutshwe ngokukhuthaza, ehloniphekileyo ekukhuthazeni izakhiwo zokukhuthaza eziphatha ngokwezinto ezingekho ngokwezizathu zokucinga okanye ukuzwa. Iinkonzo eziphatha ngokwezizathu — ezaziwa njengezithi zokukhuthaza ezixhaphaza abantu ababini — ziqhelekile ngokuba zineenjongo ezinokubalwa zokukhuthaza kwazo kwababini. Ukukhuthaza ngokwahlulelanayo nokuqonda, kubuyisa ukuzikhethela kwakho kokukhuthaza, nangokungafanele, kubuyekeza ukukhuthaza kwakho kwabanye. Yindlela yokuziphatha ngokomoya nangokuziphatha, akuyi ndlela yokukhuthaza okanye ukukhuthaza.
Izimpawu & Amasiko okukhangela kuzo
Ukubona izimpawu ezithile ezihambelana nazo ukucotha ukukhuthaza ukukhuthaza kwezokucotha yinkqubo yokuqala ekukhuthazeni ekukhuthaza isixhobo esingcolileyo. Lezi zimpawu zivela kakhulu kubantu abanxulumene nalesi sizathu:
- Umntu uhlala ekuqaleni kwakho ngokukhawuleza ngaphandle kokuba ufuna ukumbona
- Uzwa izimo zokuziva zabo ngaphandle kwakho nangaphandle kokuba zikhuphule isimo sakho
- Ukukhuthaza kwakho kwisithuba sokuphila kubonakalisa ukuba kubekwe okanye kubandakanywa ngokupheleleyo kwabo, okanye ukungabikho kwabo
- Ukukhuthaza okwenzekileyo kwakho okanye ukukhuthaza kwakho okanye ukukhuthaza kwakho okanye ukukhuthaza kwakho okanye ukukhuthaza kwakho okanye ukukhuthaza kwakho
- Ungqondo lwakho lixhase izinto eziphatha ngokwezizathu — ukukhuthaza kwakho kwakho, ukukhuthaza kwakho kwakho, ukukhuthaza kwakho kwakho
- Amaphulo nokuphumla ahloniphekileyo ngokwezizathu zokukhuthaza, ekukhuthazeni ukukhuthaza kwakho kwakho ekukhuthazeni ukukhuthaza kwakho
Ndingakwazi ukwenza ntoni
Fumana indawo ekhuselekileyo apho awuzokhuthazwa ngokupheleleyo kwiminitha engama-30. Hlala okanye hlala ngokukhuselekileyo. Qala ngemizuzu eyishumi yokuphumla ukuze ufikelele ekukhuthazeni okukhuselekileyo. Xa ubonisa wena uhlala kwindawo ekhuselekileyo eyenziwe ngezizwe — indawo enjalo, isifuba, okanye indawo ekhuselekileyo. Zama ukukhuthaza abanye abantu abahlala ekude ekukhuthazeni. Phakathi kwakho, hlola iinkonzo: ukuhlula, ukuhlula, okanye iminwe yakho. Ngaphandle kokuhlulelana, hlola ngani na inkunzi ngani na inkunzi. Emva koko, usebenzise isixhobo sokukhuthaza — izikere, imela, okanye izandla zakho — ukukhuthaza ngani na inkunzi ngokukhuselekileyo, phakathi kwakho. Xa ngani na inkunzi iphelile, dweba ukuzibuyisela kwakho ekupheleni kwakho, ekhuthaza indawo apho iphelileyo ngokukhuthaza okukhuselekileyo. Khuthaza inkunzi yabanye kwisikwele sokukhuthaza esiya ekude. Khuluma ngokukhuthaza: 'Ndikhuthaza inkunzi ngokuthanda, ndibuyisele ukuzikhethela kwakho.' Hlala emizuzu emihlanu ngaphambi kokubuyela ekukhuthazeni okukhethekileyo.
Nini ukuze uthole uncedo olwaziweyo lweNkolo
Xa ukukhuthaza ukukhuthaza okukhuselekileyo okanye ukukhuthaza okukhuselekileyo akukhuthazi okanye ukukhuthaza okukhuselekileyo — xa iinkonzo zikhuphuka ngokukhawuleza okanye ukukhuthaza kwakho kubonakalisa ukuba kubekwe okanye kubandakanywa ngokupheleleyo — umntu ohloniphekileyo ekukhuthazeni okanye ohloniphekileyo okanye ohloniphekileyo okanye ohloniphekileyo okanye ohloniphekileyo okanye ohloniphekileyo okanye ohloniphekileyo okanye ohloniphekileyo okanye ohloniphekileyo.
Xelela Umthandazeli weNkolo
Umthandazeli oqeqeshelweyo anokuhlola isithunzi sakho, ukubona isizathu esithile esivela kuso okukhuthaza, kunye nokunika inkcazelo ephantsiweyo ekufanele uenzeyo.
Thola isithengisi ngokuNgokubheka nqo
Isihloko
Ukucotha Ukukhuthaza Ukukhuthaza Kwezokucotha
Izimpawu ezivulekileyo
6 izimpawu ezithatyathwe
Ukuthathwa kwakho
Ukukhusela nkolo & Isithunzi
Izimpawu ezibalulekileyo
- 1.Umntu uhlala ekuqaleni kwakho ngokukhawuleza ngaphandle kokuba ufuna ukumbona
- 2.Uzwa izimo zokuziva zabo ngaphandle kwakho nangaphandle kokuba zikhuphule isimo sakho
- 3.Ukukhuthaza kwakho kwisithuba sokuphila kubonakalisa ukuba kubekwe okanye kubandakanywa ngokupheleleyo kwabo, okanye ukungabikho kwabo
- 4.Ukukhuthaza okwenzekileyo kwakho okanye ukukhuthaza kwakho okanye ukukhuthaza kwakho okanye ukukhuthaza kwakho okanye ukukhuthaza kwakho okanye ukukhuthaza kwakho
- 5.Ungqondo lwakho lixhase izinto eziphatha ngokwezizathu — ukukhuthaza kwakho kwakho, ukukhuthaza kwakho kwakho, ukukhuthaza kwakho kwakho
- 6.Amaphulo nokuphumla ahloniphekileyo ngokwezizathu zokukhuthaza, ekukhuthazeni ukukhuthaza kwakho kwakho ekukhuthazeni ukukhuthaza kwakho
Fumana ukuhambelana kokuziphatha okunxulumene nokholo
Umphathizi wokuziphatha oqeqeshelwe okanye umphathizi wokuziphatha oqeqeshelwe ungathobela indawo yakho ngokupheleleyo — ekuhloliseni enanzi yakho, ekubhaliseni izizathu zokungenelela, kwaye ekuncediseni ekusebenzeni kwakho kokuzikhusela.