Ukufumana Ukuthi Iziphumo Zokuphela KweNxalenye Yokuvumela
Ukuphela okungapheliyo okungavumeli ukuthula, ukuncediswa ngokwezokwelapha, kanye nezilungiselelo zokuphela zingakwazi ukuxhasa isimo esinobunzima esingakwaziwa ngokwezokwelapha. Ngokwezomoya, ukuphela okungapheliyo okungavumeli ukuthula kanye nezilungiselelo zokuphela kungenzeka kube yisiganeko esikhuthaza ukungahluleki phakathi kokuphela okwenzekayo kanye nokuphela okufunwa yomoya wakho. Kungenzeka kube yisiganeko sokuthi uhlangabezana nokuphatha okukhulu okungavumeli ukuthi uphathe, uhlobo lwabantu, umsebenzi, okanye inkolelo enokuthi ingavumeli ukuba yimina yakho eyi-ngqina. Umzimba wokuphela — indawo yomoya wokuphela — uhluleka uma umthamo wakhe wokuphela ugxile ekukhuthaza ngokupheleleyo ngenxa yokukhuthaza okungavumeli, ukuphazamiseka okungapheliyo kokukhathala, okanye ukungaboni ngokweqileyo. Lokhu akukho ukucaphuna ngezifiso zakho; yilo umzimba kanye nomoya ekuxhumana ngolimi olungavumeli ukukhohlwa. Ukuphela okungapheliyo ngokwezomoya kungenzeka ukuba indlela yomzimba ekukhuthaza ukuthula ukuze izwi elingcono lingakhethwa.
Izimpawu & Amasiko okukhangela kuzo
Ukubona izimpawu ezithile ezihambelana nazo ukufumana ukuthi iziphumo zokuphela kwenxalenye yokuvumela yinkqubo yokuqala ekukhuthazeni ekukhuthaza isixhobo esingcolileyo. Lezi zimpawu zivela kakhulu kubantu abanxulumene nalesi sizathu:
- Ukuphela okukhuthaza ngokukhulu emva kokuxhumana okanye ezizathu ezifunayo ukungaboni ngokweqileyo, futhi okukhuthaza ngokukhuthaza ngokukhuthaza okunokwenzeka okanye okuncedisayo
- Ukuphela okukhuthaza ekhaya okanye ekubeni nomntu ohloniphayo ekufunayo ukukhuthaza izizwe zakho ezinjalo
- Uhlangabezana nezimpumlo zokuphela uma uhlangabezana nezinto ezenziwa ngokukhuthaza okunokwenzeka okanye okunokwenzeka okunokwenzeka
- Uhlangabezana nokuphela ngani ekuseni, ngaphambi kokuba nezidingo ezithile zikhuthazwe — njengokuba uhluleka ekuseni
- Ukucaphuna okungapheliyo kokuba okunokwenzeka okunokwenzeka okunokwenzeka okunokwenzeka ekupheleni kwakho
- Amaphupha ahlangabezana nezinto zokuhamba, ukukhuthaza, okanye ukukhangela okunokwenzeka okunokwenzeka
Ndingakwazi ukwenza ntoni
Qala ngokuhlola ngokweqileyo: kwakho ekupheleni, ngubani ohlangabezana nokuphatha okungavumeli ukuthi uphathe? Lokhu kungenzeka kube yuhlobo lwabantu, umsebenzi, okanye inkolelo yomntu ohloniphayo. Ukubhala okukhethekileyo ngezinto ohlangabezana nazo kunezinto ohlangabezana nazo kungenza ukhuthaze indawo ekhuthaza ukuphela. Izinto ezenza umzimba wokuphela ukhuthaze zifaka i-qi gong, ukuhamba emhlabeni ngaphandle kwezixhobo, ukukhuthaza okunokwenzeka ngaphandle kwezixhobo, kanye nokuthula okunokwenzeka. Ukukhuthaza okukhethekileyo okukhuthaza umoya wokuphela — indawo yakho yomoya wokuphela — kungenza ukuba uhlangaze nezinto ezivumela ukukhuthaza okungavumeli okanye ukukhuthaza okungavumeli okunokwenzeka ekupheleni kwakho.
Nini ukuze uthole uncedo olwaziweyo lweNkolo
Emva kokukhuthaza izifo ngomthengisi wezokwelapha, hlola nesiqhelo okanye umthengisi wezomoya uma izinto zokuhlola ngokweqileyo azikwazi ukukhuthaza isimo esiphakamileyo, okanye uma uhlangaze ukuba yini ehlulekileyo kodwa ungaqondi ukwenza okunokwenzeka. Umthengisi ohloniphekileyo ungaqondi izinto ezithile ezivumela ukuphela kanye nezinto ezidinga ukuthatha izinyathelo ezidinga ukuthuthaza umzimba wakho.
Xelela Umthandazeli weNkolo
Umthandazeli oqeqeshelweyo anokuhlola isithunzi sakho, ukubona isizathu esithile esivela kuso okukhuthaza, kunye nokunika inkcazelo ephantsiweyo ekufanele uenzeyo.
Thola isithengisi ngokuNgokubheka nqo
Isihloko
Ukufumana Ukuthi Iziphumo Zokuphela KweNxalenye Yokuvumela
Izimpawu ezivulekileyo
6 izimpawu ezithatyathwe
Ukuthathwa kwakho
Ukukhusela nkolo & Isithunzi
Izimpawu ezibalulekileyo
- 1.Ukuphela okukhuthaza ngokukhulu emva kokuxhumana okanye ezizathu ezifunayo ukungaboni ngokweqileyo, futhi okukhuthaza ngokukhuthaza ngokukhuthaza okunokwenzeka okanye okuncedisayo
- 2.Ukuphela okukhuthaza ekhaya okanye ekubeni nomntu ohloniphayo ekufunayo ukukhuthaza izizwe zakho ezinjalo
- 3.Uhlangabezana nezimpumlo zokuphela uma uhlangabezana nezinto ezenziwa ngokukhuthaza okunokwenzeka okanye okunokwenzeka okunokwenzeka
- 4.Uhlangabezana nokuphela ngani ekuseni, ngaphambi kokuba nezidingo ezithile zikhuthazwe — njengokuba uhluleka ekuseni
- 5.Ukucaphuna okungapheliyo kokuba okunokwenzeka okunokwenzeka okunokwenzeka okunokwenzeka ekupheleni kwakho
- 6.Amaphupha ahlangabezana nezinto zokuhamba, ukukhuthaza, okanye ukukhangela okunokwenzeka okunokwenzeka
Fumana ukuhambelana kokuziphatha okunxulumene nokholo
Umphathizi wokuziphatha oqeqeshelwe okanye umphathizi wokuziphatha oqeqeshelwe ungathobela indawo yakho ngokupheleleyo — ekuhloliseni enanzi yakho, ekubhaliseni izizathu zokungenelela, kwaye ekuncediseni ekusebenzeni kwakho kokuzikhusela.