Ukuthatha isilinganiso sokukhetha isithunzi samadokotela wezinkomo

Isigaba 1: Hlaziya Lokho Okudingayo

Ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukubheka iziprofilu zezihloli, hlaziya lokho okudingayo. Lokhu okuningi uma kuqondiswa ngokuzwisisa ngokuzwisisa ngokuzwisisa ngokuzwisisa. Buze wena:

• Yini indaba okanye inkathazo oyifuna ukukhuthaza? Ingaba yezokuthandana /find/love-psychic/, ezokhuthaza /find/career-psychic/, ukuhlangana nomuntu owahluleka /find/medium/, ukukhula ngokomoya, noma ukuhlonipha okubalulekile kokuphela?
• Yini indlela yokuzuzwa oyithandayo? Ingaba uhlangabezana ne tarot /find/tarot-reader/, ukwazi okukhanye, ukubheka izinkanyezi, ukukhumbula abantu abahluleka, noma ungena emva kokuthi uphoyisa usebenzisa yini na?
• Ufuna ukuxhumana kanjani? Ucinga ngokuxhumana nge fowuni, ichati, noma ividiyo? Kunezinto ezahlukileyo ezihambelana nezimpilo kanye nezimo zakho.
• Yini imali yakho? Lokhu kuzinza izakhiwo zeziteji nezihloli ezihlangeneyo.
• Ufuna ukuthola unakelelo noma izimpendulo ezihambelana nawe? Abanye abaholi bakhuthaza kakhulu. Abanye bakhuluma ngokucophelela. Zonke izimo zihambelana, kodwa zihluleka kakhulu.

Ukuba unolwazi lolu ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukukhangela, lokhu kuzosiza ekunciphisa ukukhangela kakhulu futhi kuzosiza ekutholeni isikhokheli esihle.

Isigaba 2: Khetha Isakhiwo Esihlangene

Izakhiwo ezahlukene zihambelana nezidingo ezahlukene. Ngisho isilinganiso esifushane sokuhambisana nezidingo zakho nezakhiwo ezihlangene:

• Ukukhuthaza ukukhuthaza kanye nokuphepha: California Psychics noma Psychic Source — Zonke zihlola abaholi ngokugcwele
• Ukukhetha abaholi abaningi: Keen — Iphinde yehla elikhulu elingu-1,700 abaholi abasebenza
• Ukufundisa ngechati: Kasamba — Ukuthi okukhulu okwenzeka ngechati
• Imobile nevidiyo: Purple Garden — Isakhiwo esihle sokuphatha kanye nezivideo
• Eziphuthumayo: PathForward noma Purple Garden — Izindleko eziphansi zokhuseleko

Ukuhlola ukuxhumana kwezakhiwo zonke, hamba kuhlelo lokuhlola abaholi abasebenzayo abangu-10.

Isigaba 3: Hlola Abaholi Ngamunye

Uma uhlulekile isakhiwo, sebenzisa lezi zilinganiso zokuhlola abaholi ngamunye:

Amakhefu nezilinganiso

Amakhefu akho kubalulekile kakhulu. Buyekeza ngaphandle kokubona izilinganiso zezilinganiso futhi funda amakhefu. Hlola:

• Ukubungaza. Uphoyisa onemakhefu angu-500 anikeza ukuphepha okuningi kunene kunomuntu onemakhefu angu-5, noma ngani uma zihambelana.
• Ukukhuthaza. Amakhefu anikeza imininingwane eyodwa, eyaziwa, futhi eyaziwa ngokuthi iziphiwo zikhuthaza. Lokhu kusho ukuthi unolwazi oluthile.
• Ukufihla. Hlola amakhefu ezimo ezihambelana nezimo zakho. Uphoyisa onelwazi ekuthandeni kakhulu angeke akwazi ukunikeza imininingwane eyanele ekukhuthazeni.
• Ukudlulela. Amakhefu angeniwe okhokho akhona kusasa. Amakhefu angeniwe okhokho okhokho kusasa akhuthaza ukuthi uphoyisa akwazi ukwenza umsebenzi wakhe.
• Amakhefu okubi. Fundela ngokucophelela. Amanye amakhefu okubi phakathi kwakho nezilinganiso ezinhle azinankinga. Izimo ezihambelana nezimo zakho azinankinga.

Amanye amakhefu

Iphrofilu elungile yomuntu ikhombisa okuningi ngokuthi kuzwakale. Hlola:

• Ukukhuthaza okukhuthaza okukhuthaza okukhuthaza okukhuthaza
• Ukukhuthaza ukuthi indlela yokuzuzwa (okuthokozisa, okucophelela, okukhuthaza, njll.)
• Ukuthi izinto azisebenzisa (tarot, ukwazi okukhanye, ukubheka izinkanyezi, njll.)
• Iminyaka yokuvula
• Iphrofilu elungile, elandayo elisho ukuthi bayaziphatha ngokuphepha

Isilinganiso sokukhokha

Izindleko eziphansi kakhulu (ngaphansi kwephuleli elingu-1/min) zingase zibonise ukuthi akukho unolwazi. Izindleko eziphakeme kakhulu ($20+/min) azingase zibe yinto ekufanele. Ukukhuthaza okukhuthaza okukhuthaza okukhuthaza okukhuthaza okungama-3 kuya ku-10/min. Lokhu kusho ukuthi izidingo zakho zihlangene.

Isigaba 4: Zazi Amaphuzu Okwehluleka

Ukukhumbula abantu abanezinkinga kuyadingeka kakhulu njengokuthola abantu abane. Gqoka iseshoni ngokushesha noma uhluleke ukuhlanganyela nomuntu uma uhlangabezana nazizinto:

• Ukuthiwa ngumthetho noma umthandazo. Uphoyisa ongena noma ekhuthaza ukuthi unomthetho, unothando, noma unomoya omubi okumele uhluleke ngomthandazo noma umsebenzi onjalo, uyaphula. Abaholi abaqinileyo abasebenzisi.
• Ukuthiwa kwezinto ezinikiwe. Akukho uphoyisa onokuthiwa ukuthi izinto ezithile zizokwenzeka. Ukukhumbula kwezinto ezithile kanye nezidingo zakho.
• Ukukhuthaza okukhuthaza. Abaholi abakhuthaza ukuthi kufanele uhluleke izinkinga ngokushesha, noma ekukhuthaza ukuthi kufanele uhluleke izinkinga ngokushesha, bayaphula.
• Ukucela okuningi. Uphoyisa oncenga imibuzo eminingi ngaphambi kokuba aziphoze nezimpendulo zakhe, angeke akwazi ukwenza umsebenzi wakhe.
• Ukwehlisa ukuthatha isiqiniseko. Uphoyisa ongena noma ekhuthaza ukuthi ungakaze uhlanganyele nezihlobo, izihlobo, noma abaqashi, uyaphula. Abaholi abaqinileyo abasebenzisi.
• Ukuthiwa okungakwazi. Ukuthiwa okungakwazi, "Wakhe wahluleka ekukhuthazeni," noma "Unomuntu ozizwa ekukhumbuleni," akukho okukhuthaza. Ukukhumbula kwezinto ezithile, ezihambelana nezimo zakho.

Isigaba 5: Hlola Ngaphambi Kokuba Uhlule

Ukuthiwa kweziteji zokuzuzwa ezisebenzayo kungenza ukuthi abanye bathole izindleko eziphansi noma ezimelene. Sebenzisa lokhu:

• Sebenzisa imizuzu ephakeme (njengamaminithi angu-5 e Keen noma amaminithi angu-3 e Kasamba ngamunye) ukuhlola abaholi abaningi
• Sebenzisa izindleko eziphansi zokuhlola ukuthi uphoyisa onelwazi ongazange uhlule
• Buze imibuzo enye ekhuthaza ngokuphepha futhi hlola ukuphepha kanye nokufaneleka kwezimpendulo
• Hlola indlela ozizwa ngayo ngaphakathi komsebenzi. Ingabe uhlangabezana? Uhlonishwa? Uzwakalwa?

Isigaba 6: Fihla Ukhuthaza

Ngemuva kokuhlola okwazi, fihla ukhuthaza wakho ngokuhambisana nomuntu. Ukuxhumana phakathi kwakho noholi bakho kubalulekile. Uma uphoyisa onelwazi elihle kodwa okuthile okungakuzweni, kulungile ukuhlola enye. Ngokwesibonelo, uma uphoyisa onemakhefu angaphansi kodwa okuthile okukhuthaza, lokhu okukhuthaza okukhuthaza okukhuthaza.

Izinto ezihlangene ezinhle zikhuphuka ngokwexesha. Uma uhlanganyela nomuntu onokuxhumana naye kakhulu futhi anikeza imininingwane eyanele, ekwakhiweni kwakho okhokho, izingxoxo zakho zokuphepha zihlala zikhuphuka.

I-Checklist Engokukhuthaza

• Hlaziya izidingo zakho ezithile (indaba, indlela yokuzuzwa, imali, indlela yokuxhumana)
• Khetha isakhiwo esihambelana nezidingo zakho
• Funda amakhefu angu-10 ngamunye womuntu, hlela ekukhuthazeni kanye nokufaneleka
• Hlola izakhiwo zezihloli (abaholi abaqinileyo abasebenzisa kakhulu)
• Hlola izindleko ezihambelana (ukukhuthaza okungama-3 kuya ku-10/min)
• Hlola amaphuzu okwehluleka (umthetho, ukuthiwa kwezinto ezinikiwe, izinkinga zokukhuthaza)
• Sebenzisa izindleko zokuhlola ngaphambi kokuba uhlule
• Fihla ukhuthaza wakho ngokuhambisana nomuntu
• Hlaziya imibuzo ngaphambi kokuba uqale (hamba kuhlelo lokuhlola okukhuthaza)

Izinsuku Ezilandelayo

Uyasebenzisa? Hlela ukukhangela kuhlelo lokuhlola abaholi abasebenzayo abangu-10 ukuhlola izakhiwo zonke, noma hlela ngendlela yokuzuzwa:

• Abaholi bezokuthandana nezokubandlulula
• Abaholi bezokhuthaza nezokhokho
• Abaholi abahluleka
• Abaholi bezotshani
• Izinketho eziphuthumayo
• Uhlelo lokukhuthaza abahloli bokuqala

Futhi uma uhlulekile uphoyisa wakho, hlola kuhlelo lokuhlola okukhuthaza ukuze uthole okuningi kulelo xesha.