Ukudlula
Ikhulu lamanje likushiya ubanda ngempela. Hhayi ngendlela yokwenza, yobuhle — awukhethi nje imfashini yakudala noma ujabulele amadrama enkathi. Umuzwa ungokwezinto ezikhona. Isivinini, izindinganiso, isiko lobudlelwano, umsindo, ngisho nokudla kwale nkathi kuzwakala njengengubo engafanele. Uzithola ucabanga hhayi nje ngokuvakashela esinye isikhathi kodwa ngokuhlala lapho — ukuhlala imigqi yaso, ukuhamba kwaso kancane, izinhlobo zaso ezithile zobuhle nomphakathi. Kungase kube nenkathi ethile ekudonsayo: i-Renaissance, ama-1920s, i-ancient Greece. Uma ufunda ngakho, kukhona okusebenzayo okungathintwa ukufunda umlando wamanje. Izinkolo eziningi ezingokomoya zibamba ukuthi imiphefumulo izalwa kaningi ezinkathini ezahlukene zomlando futhi ingase ifike enkathini yamanje engaphandle ngokuphelele ekuzweleni okubunjwe yizimpilo eziningi zangaphambili. Umuzwa wokususwa kwesikhathi wugebe phakathi komlingiswa oqoqiwe womphefumulo wakho nokubekwa kwakho komlando wamanje.
Ukufundisa okukhuthaza ekhaya
Umphefumulo uthwala phambili okuthandwayo, ukuzwela, nezinhlaka zemizwelo ezakhiwe ezimpilweni eziningi. Uma iningi lezimpilo zakho lenzeka ezikweni ezihamba kancane, ezigxile emphakathini, ezigxile ngokomoya, umphefumulo wakho ubunjwe yileyo migqi. Ukufika enkathini yoshintsho olusheshayo lwezobuchwepheshe, ukuhlukana kwedijithali, kanye nokuzimela kungazwakala kudida ngempela ezingeni lomphefumulo — hhayi emphakathini kuphela. Inkathi ozizwa udonselwa kuyo cishe iyiyo lapho waphila khona izimpilo eziningi ezibalulekile, wakha umlingiswa nezindinganiso eziseyingqikithi yalokho oyikho.
Indima yomuntu ozwa ngokuthi ungakwazi ukuthi ungakwazi ukuthi ungakwazi ukuthi ungakwazi ukuthi ungakwazi ukuthi ungakwazi ukuthi.
Isazi sokubona sempilo edlule singakwazi ukukhomba izinkathi ezithile zomlando lapho okuhlangenwe nakho okujulile kokubumba umphefumulo wakho kwenzeka khona, sikusize uqonde ukuthi kungani inkathi yamanje izwakala ingeyona eyakho. Ngokusebenzayo, bangakusiza ukuba ukhombe ukuthi yiziphi izindinganiso nezindlela zokuba ezivela ezimpilweni zakho ezizwakalayo kakhulu ongaziletha ngokwazi ezimweni zakho zamanje — ukuvala igebe lesikhathi esikhundleni sokuhlupheka ngalo.