Yilokhu okuthiwa yini
Ukubhala okwaziwayo yindlela yokuvumela amagama, izisho noma ulimi olungakwazi ukuvela ngenhloso engenakho ukukhuthaza—uhlobo lokukhuthaza okwenziwa ngokubhala. Umboni uyiswa esimo lokukhuthaza okuncane noma esimo sokuziphatha okukhuthaza, uphatha ipeni noma ehlala ekhompawundi, futhi avumela ukutholakala kokubhalwa ngaphandle kokucabanga okukhuthaza noma ukukhathazeka kokubhalwa. Ukubhalwa okwaziwayo kungaba kusuka ekhaya eliphezulu lomboni, kusuka okhokho bezimoya, kusuka izinto ezingezimpumlo ezingathanda ukuhlangana, noma kusuka izinto ezingekho ekhaya ezifuna ukuxhumana. Le ndlela yenziwa izinkathi eziningi futhi yenziwa kakhulu ngenkathi yemvelo yezinkolo zaseNingizimu neSewula ngenkuthi yase-19. Ekunxenye yokuphendula okhokho, ukubhala okwaziwayo kusetshenziswa ukuze kutholakale imilayezo eminengi, emide, enokwazi ukuze umboni angakwazi ukuyithola ngokwezindlela ezokwaziwayo. Ukubhalwa okwaziwayo kubuyekeza izimpawu nezisho ezikhethekile ezingakwazi ukuthi umboni angawazi uma ehlalele. Abanye ababhalela okwaziwayo baphindelela ulimi olungakwazi ukuphuma okukhuthaza; abanye bathola amagama anokwazi ukuhlangana uma zihlolwa zonke. Amanye amanye amilayezo anezimpawu ezithile—ikhono noma ulimi olungahambelani noma obonwa umboni—okungakwazi ukukhuthaza ukuthi ikhona inkulumo engenakho ukukhuthaza.
Yini okulindelekile ngeseshoni
Umboni ungasebenza ngesikhathi seshidi lakho noma angathatha isikhathi esiningi phakathi kokubhukiswa kanye nokunikezwa ukuze ahlangane nesimo sokukhuthaza esidingekayo. Baphindelela ulimi olubhekene nezimo noma imibuzo yakho. Le nqulo ingaba kusuka okhokho bezimoya, ekhaya eliphezulu, noma abanye abantu abangekho ekhaya, ngokokuthi umboni ukhuthaza. Ulimi olubhalwe luyakwazi ukunikezwa kuwe—okungaba ngokuphendula ngesikhathi seshidi noma njengekhasi elinikezelwe. Ukuthola ulimi olubhalwe okukhuthaza kungakuhluza okungahambelani nokuxhumana okukhuthaza okukhuluma.
Kuyinto enjani
- Ukuthola imilayezo eminengi, emide kunokuthola izimpawu ezincane
- Ukuxhumana nezimoya zokukhuthaza ngesimo sokubhalwa okukhuthaza, okukhuthaza okugcina
- Abantu abafunda kakhulu ngokubhalwa kunokuxhumana okukhuluma
- Izimo lapho imilayezo eminengi nezimpawu ezikhethekile zidingeka kunokuthola ukuphendula okukhuthaza okukhula
Ukuthi Ungakuthola Kanjani Umthwebuli Ohloniphekile
Ababhalela okwaziwayo abanikela nokuphatha izimoya kanye nokuxhumana—hlola lazo zikho ngokunxenye kokuphethwe kwakho komboni. Izilinganiso zifanele zibuyekeze izimpawu ezithile zokubhalwa okwaziwayo—ikhono elithi lingahambelani noma obonwa umboni. Izinkundla zokuxhumana nge-imeyili kanye nezinhlelo zokuxhumana zihambelana kakhulu nezindlela zokubhala. Buza umboni uma bethenga ngesikhathi seshidi noma uma bethenga ngesikhathi esiningi emva kwalokho.