Yilokhu okuthiwa yini
Ukufundela kwezempathic yisesshoni engenziwa ngomuntu ongumathusi wezimpawu—ongakhetha ukuthi ikhono lwakhe eliphezulu lokuqondisisa ngokujwayelekile izimpawu zokukhuthaza ezinye izinto eziphilayo nezimo zokuthwasa njengoba zingakho. Isistimu yomuntu ongumathusi iyisebenza njengento ephila ehlonza isimo sokuthwasa esingakhethiwe uma ekhuthaza ekukhuthaza. Ekukhuthazeni, lokhu kusho ukuthi umathusi angathatha isimo sokuthwasa sakuwe nasekuhlangana nezinto ekhona ekukhuthazeni ngani ngokunembile futhi ngokweqile. Awazazi nje lokho okubonwayo ekude, kodwa azizwa ngokuphelele isimo sokuthwasa esenziwa. Abantu abangumathusi bezimpawu bazwa isikhalo, uthando, ukukhathazeka, noma ukudabuka kwabantu ababhekene nabo ngokushaya. Lokhu kuholela ekutheni ukufundela kwezempathic kuyinto engasiza ekukhuthazeni okwenzekayo, ukwelapha ngokomoya, nasezindaweni lapho ukwazi kanjani okwaziwa ngokuthiwa kuyinto engcwele. Abangumathusi bezimpawu bazwa ngendlela ehlonza ekukhuthazeni, futhi abanye bakhona ekukhuthazeni ngokomoya, ukwelapha, noma ekukhuthazeni abanye.
Yini okulindelekile ngeseshoni
Umthwebuli akhuthaza ekukhuthazeni kuwe nasekuhlangana nezinto ezihlangene nawe, futhi aqale ukwazisa lokho azizwa ngokomoya. Angakwazi ukukhomba ngokuthi "Ngizwa isikhalo sokukhathazeka okukhulu ekhona" noma "Kukhona okungathandeki okukhuthaza lapho akukhuthazwa." Ukufundela kuyinto ehlonza ngokweqile futhi ehloniphekile—umathusi omuhle wezimpawu uhloniphe izinto ezikhuthaza ozizwa kodwa ozingekho ekukhuthazeni. Isesshoni ingaba yinto ehlonza futhi ehloniphekile, futhi izophendula imibuzo engathi "Lolu hlanga lomuntu lizwa kanjani ngokuthiwa kuyinto engcwele" ngokunembile.
Kuyinto enjani
- Ukwazi kanjani okwaziwa ngokuthiwa kuyinto engcwele ngani ngokuthiwa kuyinto engcwele yomuntu ozithandayo noma ozithandayo
- Ukukhuthaza ukuthwasa kwakho ngani ngesikhathi esinzima ngokunikeza ukhuthaza olungisisa
- Izindaweni lapho ukwazi isimo sokuthwasa kuyinto engcwele kunokuthi ukubona izinto ezithile ezokwenzeka
- Abantu abangakhethi ukuthwasa okungakhethiwe ngokweqile futhi bafuna ukukhuthazwa kokuthi okwaziwa ngokuthiwa kuyinto engcwele
Ukuthi Ungakuthola Kanjani Umthwebuli Ohloniphekile
Abangumathusi abangumathusi bezimpawu abalalela ikhono lwakhe ngokuthi bazi ngokuthwasa kunokubona noma ukukhumbula. Hlola abathwebuli ababhala ngokuthi bazi izimpawu zokuthwasa, okuthi bazi izimpawu zokuthwasa, noma bazi lokho abanye bazwa. Lokhu ikhono kanye nalo ikhono elihlonza ekukhuthazeni abantu. Izimpawu ezibhala ukuthi "Umthwebuli wazi ngokuphelele lokho ngizwa" noma abhale ngabanye abahlangana nawe ngokunembile kokuthwasa kuyinto engcwele. Abanye abangumathusi bezimpawu abasebenzela ekukhuthazeni ukuthandwa nasezindaweni zokuthandwa.
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