Ukudinga kokwahlulela nokwehluleka kokubambisana nabantu
Ukudinga kokwahlulela kokukhulu kuyisimo esiphinde sikhona kakhulu ekwakheni kokukhuthaza okwehluleka. Abangane nezihlobo zibona ukwehluleka kwakho futhi zibonisa ukukhathazeka. Izibopho ezakho ezazibonakala zikhona ngokulula manje zizizwela. Ungacasha izibonelo, unqamula izinvitation, futhi uhlaleke emva kokwahlulela okuningi — awukho ngoba unamathanda, kodwa ngoba ukwahlulela kuzwa kuyisidingo. Ukudinga kokwahlulela kwenze izici eziningi ngesikhathi sokukhuthaza: kuthuthukisa ukunciphisa izidingo zokubambisana nabantu ngesikhathi isistimu yakho isebenza, kwenze indawo yokwazi okungakwazi ukwenzeka ekuhlaliseni nabanye, futhi kwenzele ukuthi iselakho esitsha libe nesikhathi sokukhula ngaphandle kokukhuthaza ukugcina isimo sakho esidala.
Izimpawu & Amaphetho
Lezi zizo izimpawu eziphatheleneke kakhulu ezithathelwe ukuthi ukudinga kokwahlulela nokwehluleka kokubambisana nabantu:
- Ukudinga kokwahlulela okukhulu okhuthaza kakhulu ngesikhathi sakho sokukhuthaza
- Izibonelo zokubambisana ezazenzeka njalo manje zizizwela noma zizizwela
- Ucasha izibonelo kakhulu futhi uhlangabezana ngesiphozo uma uwenze lokho
- Ukukhuluma ngamazwi ahlukile — ezemidlalo, ukuhlobana ngezithunzi, izenzo zasekhaya — zizizwela
- Ufisa ukukhuluma ngezinto ezinhlobene futhi unalo impela ekukhuthaza ukukhuluma okuncane
- Uzwa ukuthi unelidingo lokwahlulela okuningi okungakwazi ukwazi lokho okwenzekayo ekhaya
Kwenziwa ngani ekupheleni kokuzulazisa
Isistimu yakho iyasebenza ekulawula isikhathi sakho. Ukubambisana nabantu — ikakhulukazi ukubambisana okudingayo ukugcina isimo noma ukusebenza ekhuthaza okungakwazi ukusebenza ngesikhathi sakho esisuka — kuyinkululeko ekhuthaza ngesikhathi sokukhuthaza. Isistimu yakho iyakhetha ukwazi okwenzeka ekhaya ngaphandle kokubambisana nabanye ngoba ukwazi okwenzeka ekhaya kuyisidingo esiningi. Ukwehluleka kokubambisana nabanye kuyisikhathi esifushane futhi kwenziwa ngenhloso. Kuyisimo esifanayo nokuphumula ngesikhathi sokuhluleka — awukho ukwehluleka ekupheleni, kodwa ukwenza umsebenzi omkhulu wokuphelisa, futhi umsebenzi okuyingqayizivele kudingayo ukukhuthaza ekhaya. Ukudinga kokuhlobana ngezinto ezinhlobene ngokukhuthaza ukushintsha ekukhuthazeni kwakho kokuhlangana, ukuthi, ukuthula, futhi okunhlobene.
Ukuhamba ngalokhu
Hlonipha ukudinga kokwahlulela kodwa ungakhethi ukwahlulela okugcwele. Khuluma nabantu abaningi — yenza bakwazi ukuthi ukuya ekupheleni kokuphelisa kokuphelisa futhi unelidingo lokwahlulela okuningi, awukho ngoba unabathanda kancane kodwa ngoba uwenze umsebenzi wokwazi ekhaya okudingayo. Hlala ngesilinganiso esincane sokubambisana nabanye ukuze ungakhethi ukwahlulela okugcwele. Hlola abantu abenza izinto ezifanayo — amakomidi okukhuthaza, amagorupu okukhuthaza, noma ngeziforamu zokukhuthaza. Uma uhlala nabantu, hlola ukuthi okukhulu ngaphandle kokunene — inkulumo enye enhlobene kunokubambisana okuncane. Ukudinga kokwahlulela kuzokhuthaza ngokuphelele uma izikhathi eziningi zokukhuthaza ziqeda.
Khuluma neNjabulazi Oqonda
Injabulazi ehlangene nokuqonda okwakhe okwethu okuthwasa kuyakuvumela ukuthi ahloniphe izimpawu zakho, athole indawo ohlala kuyo ekupheleni, futhi akuphakamisele ukuhlela okukhuthaza okukhethekile.
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