Ukukhula kokuzwa okwandayo futhi okwazi izinto ngaphambi kokuba ziqale
Njengoba ukukhuthaza kuhluleka, abantu abaningi bathola ukukhula okukhulu kokuzwa okwandayo. Uhluleka ngomuntu emizuzweni emibili ngaphambi kokuba akukhuthaze. Uhluleka ukuthi umuntu ozokuthi ngani ngaphambi kokuba akuthi. Uhluleka ngamazwi ozobonakala emizuzweni emibili. Unemizwa mayelana nesimo elibonisa ukuthi yimfihlo futhi engakho ukuqonda okulungele. Lezizikhathi zokukhula kokuzwa futhi okwezivele zokwazi ngaphambi kokuba ziqale zikhombisa ukuthi izinkinobho zakho zikhula njengoba ukukhuthaza kuhluleka. Lokhu okakade kwakungaba yimizwa emincane emibili, manje kuyakhula, kanye futhi kwenziwa ngokukhuthaza, kanye futhi kwenziwa ngokukhuthaza. Lokhu kungahle umphendule, kodwa kungenza ukuthi uhluleke ekukhuthazeni kwakho okungakho emhlabeni wokungafani, futhi kubuye kubuze imibuzo mayelana nomphakathi, ukuzwana, futhi ekukhuthazeni.
Izimpawu & Amaphetho
Lezi zizo izimpawu eziphatheleneke kakhulu ezithathelwe ukuthi ukukhula kokuzwa okwandayo futhi okwazi izinto ngaphambi kokuba ziqale:
- Uhluleka ngomuntu futhi uthola umuntu ekhuthaza emizuzweni emibili noma uthola umbhalo noma uhlangana naye ngokushesha
- Uhluleka ukuthi umuntu ozokuthi ngani ngaphambi kokuba akuthi ngani ngokweqile
- Amazwi ozobonakala emizuzweni emibili futhi azobonakala emizuzweni emibili emhlabeni
- Imizwa emibili eminingi mayelana nezinqumo ezibonisa ukuthi yimfihlo futhi engakho ukuqonda okulungele
- Uzwana ngokuphelele ngomphakathi ngaphambi kokuba kube khona izimpawu zokuhlangana
- Uthola izimpawu ezimanye futhi ezimanye zokwazi ngamaphutha nezimo ozingakwazi ukuziqonda
Kwenziwa ngani ekupheleni kokuzulazisa
Ukukhuthaza kwakho kuhluleka ukukhula ekukhuthazeni kwakho ngaphandle kwesikhathi esihluleka. Ukuzwa okwandayo kungukuthola ukwazi ngokwezinkinobho zokuzwa kunokuthola ngokwezinkinobho zokuzwa. Ngenkathi ukukhuthaza kuhluleka, lezizinkinobho — ezingakho noma ezihluleka ekukhuthazeni kwakho — ziqala ukuhluleka futhi zikhule. Ikhono elikhula okokuqala kuhluke ngokwehluleka ngabantu: abanye bakhula ukuzwana (ukuzwa), abanye bakhula ukuzwa (ukuzwa), abanye bakhula ukuhluleka (ukubona), futhi abanye bakhula ukuzwana (ukwazi). Izimpawu zokwazi ngaphambi kokuba ziqale zikhombisa ukuthi ukuzwana kwakho kuhluleka ukuhluleka ekukhuthazeni kwakho ngaphandle kokukhuthaza okulula.
Ukuhamba ngalokhu
Qala ukuhlonza izimpawu zakho zokuzwa. Hlalele iphepha elilodwa lapho uhlonza izimpawu zakho zokuzwa ngani futhi uhlonze izimpawu zakho zokuzwa. Le mpawu isebenza ngani: iyakunika ukuthi izimpawu zakho zokuzwa zikhona futhi zikhuthaza, futhi ukuthi uhlonze iphepha elilodwa kuhlekele ukuzwana kwakho. Hluleka ukuhluleka ukuhluleka ukuhluleka — ukwazi okwandayo kufika ngokuthula futhi ngokucophelela, futhi ukwazi okungakho okungakho okukhuthaza okukhuthaza futhi okukhuthaza. Hluleka ukuhluleka ukuhluleka ukuhluleka — ukwazi okwandayo kufika ngokuthula futhi ngokucophelela, futhi ukwazi okungakho okungakho okukhuthaza okukhuthaza futhi okukhuthaza. Hluleka ukuhluleka ukuhluleka ukuhluleka — ukwazi okwandayo kufika ngokuthula futhi ngokucophelela, futhi ukwazi okungakho okungakho okukhuthaza okukhuthaza futhi okukhuthaza.
Khuluma neNjabulazi Oqonda
Injabulazi ehlangene nokuqonda okwakhe okwethu okuthwasa kuyakuvumela ukuthi ahloniphe izimpawu zakho, athole indawo ohlala kuyo ekupheleni, futhi akuphakamisele ukuhlela okukhuthaza okukhethekile.
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- Ukuthi izinkinga ezinkulu zingakwazi ukubiza ngaphandle kokuthi zikhuthaze
- Izimpawu Zokuzwa Ngokwezinkolelo Ezingakho
- Questioning Everything You Were Taught to Believe
Thola Uhlelo lokuthwasa okukhethekile
Injabulazi ekholelwa ekuthwaseni kokuzulazisa okwezulu kuyakuvumela ukuthi ahloniphe izinto ezithile ezihambelana nawe futhi akuphakamisele ukuhlela okukhethekile ekupheleni kwakho.