Ukuphepha ekhaya ngesikhathi sengcindezelo yengcindezelo yeNhlangano
Ingcindezelo yeNhlangano ehlangana kathathu noma kunezinsuku ezine ngonyaka uma inhlangano yeNhlangano, kusukela emhlabeni, ikhombisa ukuthi iyaphenduka emuva. Ezemvelo yezazi, inhlangano yeNhlangano iyayilawula ukuxhumana, ukuhamba, amagunya, ukuhlela, kanye nokuhamba kwemininingwane. Ngesikhathi sengcindezelo, lezi zindlela zihambisana nezinkinga, ukuqondiswa okungaqondiswanga, kanye nokungasebenzi kahle kakhulu kunokwenzeka njalo. Abantu abaningi, izinkinga zingekho noma zinganciphe. Abanye, okukhuthaza abantu abanezinkomba ezinkulu zeNhlangano ezakhelwe ekhaya, noma abantu abanokuzwa kwezimo zokudlula, izikhathi zengcindezelo zingakudala ukukhuthaza ukukhathazeka, ukuqondiswa okungaqondiswanga, futhi isimo sokuthi uhlala ungena phansi. Ukwazi ukuthi yini enza isikhathi sengcindezelo futhi ukusebenzisa ngokusho kwayo kunokuthuthukisa isikhathi esingakuthutha ekupheleni.
Izimpawu & Amashwa okufanele uhloniphe
Ukubona izimpawu ezihambisana nezinto ukuphepha ekhaya ngesikhathi sengcindezelo yengcindezelo yenhlangano ukuqala kwakho ekukhuliseni isimo sokuproteka okhokho. Lezi zimpawu eziningi ezivela ekuhlolweni kwabantu abaqondana nalesi sidingo:
- Ukuxhumana okwaziwa kakhulu ngaphandle kokuthi uze wazi ukuthi uyazama ukukhuluma ngokucophelela
- Ukuhlela okungasebenzi ngasikhathi esingalungile — izici zokungasebenzi, ama-imeyili azoqaqa, izistimu zihluleka
- Izinkinga zokuhamba, izikhathi zokwehla, kanye nezinkinga zokulawula ezihlangana ngesikhathi sengcindezelo
- Abakwethu abesifazane, abangani abasakhona, kanye nezimo ezadlulela ekhaya ngenhloso eziphuthumayo
- Amagunya noma amasebenzo anqunywe athi ahluleka okanye ahluleka ngokushaya
- Ukukhathazeka kwengqondo, ukukhuthaza okungaqondiswanga, noma isimo sokuthi uhlale ungena phansi futhi ungalawuleki kahle njengoba wazama
Yini ongakwazi ukuyenza
Isimo sokuphepha esisisekelo ngesikhathi sengcindezelo yokuphumelela ukuthuthukisa futhi ukwazi ukuthi unikezele isikhathi. Hlola wonke amadetha akho anamukela ngesikhathi sengcindezelo. Hluleka ukubhala amagunya anamukela, ukuthuthukisa izici ezinkulu ezisha, noma ukuthatha izinqulo ezinkulu ngokushaya ngesikhathi sengcindezelo uma kungenzeka. Uma kudingeka ukuxhumana ngamathuba anamukela, hlola ngokubhala ngenkathi uxhumana ngokukhuluma. Ekhaya, amagatsha amhlophe noma amagatsha amhlophe anikeza ukuxhumana okucophelele futhi ukuthula ngesikhathi sengcindezelo. Sebenzisa isikhathi sengcindezelo ekutheni yini enza: ukubheka, ukuphendula, ukushintsha, ukuhlangana, kanye nokuhlola. Izinto ezihlanganisa 'UKU-' zilapho zihlala zisebenza ngesikhathi sengcindezelo. Okungasebenzi kahle yizinto ezihlanganisa 'UKU-'.
Leliphi ixesha ufanele ukhuthaze okhokho
Uma isikhathi sengcindezelo yengcindezelo yengcindezelo yonke inhlangano yakho ihluleka kakhulu, ongcindezeli noma ongcindezeli wengcindezelo angakhetha ukubheka ekhaya lakho ukuthi ubone ukuxhumana kwakho neNhlangano futhi ukubona izindawo ezithintekayo ekukhuthaza ngesikhathi sengcindezelo. Bangakunikeza nokuphatha ngamathuba angenzeka kuwe ngokunokwabo, ekwazi ukuthuthukisa isikhathi sengcindezelo ngenkathi uqonda okungaqondiswanga.
Hlaloze nomshumayeli wokhokho
Umshumayeli wokhokho osemqoka angaqhuba ukuhlola isimo sakho sokuproteka, athole inkomba yokuthi yini ekhuthaza lokho okwenzayo, futhi anikeze unqulo olulodwa ngokuphelele kokho.
Thola umshumayeli wokhokho manjeNgokushesha
Isihloko
Ukuphepha ekhaya ngesikhathi sengcindezelo yengcindezelo yeNhlangano
izimpawu ezivulelekile
6 izimpawu ezitholwe
Ukhetho
Ukuproteka okhokho & Amandla
Izimpawu ezibalulekile
- 1.Ukuxhumana okwaziwa kakhulu ngaphandle kokuthi uze wazi ukuthi uyazama ukukhuluma ngokucophelela
- 2.Ukuhlela okungasebenzi ngasikhathi esingalungile — izici zokungasebenzi, ama-imeyili azoqaqa, izistimu zihluleka
- 3.Izinkinga zokuhamba, izikhathi zokwehla, kanye nezinkinga zokulawula ezihlangana ngesikhathi sengcindezelo
- 4.Abakwethu abesifazane, abangani abasakhona, kanye nezimo ezadlulela ekhaya ngenhloso eziphuthumayo
- 5.Amagunya noma amasebenzo anqunywe athi ahluleka okanye ahluleka ngokushaya
- 6.Ukukhathazeka kwengqondo, ukukhuthaza okungaqondiswanga, noma isimo sokuthi uhlale ungena phansi futhi ungalawuleki kahle njengoba wazama
Thola unqulo olulodwa lokhokho
Umshumayeli wokhokho onomthetho angaqhuba isimo sakho ngokuphelele — ekuhloliseni isimo sakho sokuproteka, athole inkomba yezinto ezivame ukuthinta, futhi akuhlekele ekukhuliseni okuproteka kwakho.