Ukudlula
Izingane ezichaza lo muzwa ngokuvamile azikwazi ukuwuchaza kahle, kodwa uvela ngokucacile: umuzwa wokuthi usuphilile, usuwafundile izinto ezithile, usuwazile usizi. Abantu abadala abagcina lo muzwa kulo lonke impilo yabo bawuchaza njengegebe eliqhubekayo phakathi kweminyaka yomzimba nokuthile okungaphakathi okuzwakala kudala. Uthola izinto ezikhathaza ontanga bakho zibukeka zinjengezingane hhayi ngenxa yokuziqhenya kodwa ngenxa yokungaqondi ngempela — izinto ezibakhathazayo zibonakala zingezesigaba osuke wasidlula ngandlela thile. Uhlale ukhululekile kakhulu nabantu abadala kakhulu kunawe. Uphethe ukukhathala ukuphumula okungakuxazululi — hhayi ukucindezeleka, kodwa ukukhathala okuthile kokuhlangenwe nakho okukhulu. Uhlale wazi izinto ezithile ngabantu, ngokulahlekelwa, ngemvelo yesikhathi ngaphandle kokuba uphile isikhathi eside ngokwanele kulo mzimba ukuze uzifunde. Lokhu kuyisimo somphefumulo onokuzalwa kabusha okuningi ngemuva kwawo, obuya futhi nesisindo sawo esiqoqiwe singonakalisiwe.
Ukufundisa okukhuthaza ekhaya
Inani lokuzalwa kabusha umphefumulo oluqedile lwakha ukujula kwawo, ubudlelwano bawo obuyisici nokuhlupheka, ukubekezelela kwawo ubunzima, nokungakhululeki kwawo nezinto ezilula zokuthuthuka kokuqala. Umphefumulo omdala uphethe isisindo sokuhlangenwe nakho kwemijikelezo eminingi yokuzalwa, ukufunda, ubudlelwano, ukulahlekelwa, nokufa. Emzimbeni omncane, lokhu kujula kudala ngqo igebe olizwayo — ingaphakathi lizizwa lingahambisani nengaphandle ngoba iminyaka yomphefumulo idlula kakhulu iminyaka yomzimba. Lokhu akulona iphutha. Kuyisiginesha yomphefumulo ezinyathelweni eziphambili zohambo lwawo lokuzalwa kabusha, okhetha ukubuya ukuze enze umsebenzi othile wokuqeda kunokuba aqale izifundo kusukela ekuqaleni.
Indima yomuntu ozwa ngokuthi ungakwazi ukuthi ungakwazi ukuthi ungakwazi ukuthi ungakwazi ukuthi ungakwazi ukuthi ungakwazi ukuthi.
Umlumbi angakunikeza umongo wokujula nobukhulu bokuzalwa kabusha kwangaphambili komphefumulo wakho, ekusiza ukuba uqonde ukukhathala, ukuhlakanipha okusheshayo, nomuzwa wokushintsha kwesikhathi okuphethe njengezici zomphefumulo othuthukile kunokuba kube yizinto ezingajwayelekile. Bangakwazi ukukhomba ukuthi yimuphi umsebenzi othile okubuyisele kule mpilo nokuthi ungabhekana kanjani nawo ngenhloso — ukuguqula isisindo seminyaka yomphefumulo wakho sibe yinsiza kunokuba kube umthwalo.