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Ukukhuluma Amagama Ngolimi Ongalwazi Ngesikhathi Ulele

Okuthi okubonakala ngakho ekhaya lomoya, ukufundisa okukhuthaza ekhaya, futhi indima yomuntu ozwa ngokuthi ungakwazi ukuthi ufuna ukwazi ngakho.

Ukudlula

Ozithandayo, amalungu omndeni, noma abahlala nabo babika ukukuzwa ukhuluma ulele ngolimi oluzwakala luhlelekile, olukhulunywa kahle — kodwa hhayi noma yiluphi ulimi olwaziwa yinoma ubani okhona, futhi ngokuqinisekile hhayi olufundile noma olwazile kule mpilo. Kwezinye izimo ulimi luyabonakala njengolimi lwasendulo noma lwangaphandle. Kwabanye luhlala lungaziwa. Amagama ahlukile, hhayi umsindo ongahleliwe, futhi ngezinye izikhathi aphethe isigqi esingokomzwelo — ukuphuthuma, ububele, usizi. Lesi simo sihlala emaphethelweni olwazi olubhalwe phansi, kodwa imibiko ngaso iyahambisana ngokwanele kuzo zonke izizwe nezikhathi zomlando ukuze kufaneleke ukucatshangelwa ngokungathi sína. Ngesikhathi sokulala okujulile, izigaba ezifundwe ingqondo eqaphelayo nezihlungi zolimi ziyaphumula. Okungase kuvele kungaba inkumbulo evela ekuzalweni kabusha lapho lolo limi lwaluyindlela eyinhloko yokuphila kwansuku zonke — imithandazo ekhulunywayo, izindaba ezixoxwayo, imiyalo enikezwa ngolimi olwalungokwemvelo kuwe ngaleso sikhathi njengoba ulimi lwakho lwamanje lunjalo manje. Umzimba owawazi lawo magama wawungowakho ngesikhathi esihlukile.

Ukufundisa okukhuthaza ekhaya

Ulimi lungenye yamakhono agxile kakhulu umphefumulo owaphethe, ngoba luyindlela okwakhulunywa ngayo impilo yonke yobudlelwano, umcabango, umthandazo, nobunikazi. Ukukhuluma kahle ulimi lwempilo edlule akulona nje ikhono; luyisakhiwo sokwakha sokuqaphela kokuzalwa kabusha okuphelele. Lokhu kufakwa kungavela ngesikhathi sokulala okujulile lapho ukubusa kolimi lwempilo yamanje lwengqondo evukile kumiswa okwesikhashana. Amagama avelayo awulona umsindo — ayizingxenye zempilo ephelele yolimi umphefumulo owawuyiphila ngokugcwele, ekhuphukela phezulu ngolwelwesi oluncane lokuqaphela okulele.

Indima yomuntu ozwa ngokuthi ungakwazi ukuthi ungakwazi ukuthi ungakwazi ukuthi ungakwazi ukuthi ungakwazi ukuthi ungakwazi ukuthi.

Umlumbi onekhono elikhethekile empilweni edlule angakwazi ukukhomba ukuzalwa kabusha lapho ulimi luvela khona, isiko nesikhathi esihambisana nalo, kanye nendima leyo mpilo eyidlalayo ohambweni lwakho lomphefumulo lwamanje. Uma ulimi selukhompwe, bangakwazi ukunikeza umongo owengeziwe womlando. Uma lungakakhompwe, bangakwazi ukufinyelela irekhodi le-akashic ngqo ukuze bachaze impilo nesiko lawo magama ahlala elele.