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Ukuqaphela Izindawo Ezweni Langaphandle

Okuthi okubonakala ngakho ekhaya lomoya, ukufundisa okukhuthaza ekhaya, futhi indima yomuntu ozwa ngokuthi ungakwazi ukuthi ufuna ukwazi ngakho.

Ukudlula

Uvakashela izwe ongakaze ube kulo futhi uhamba emigwaqweni ongakaze uhambe kuyo ngaphandle kokubheka imephu. Ubona kusengaphambili ijika ngaphambi kokuba ulithathe. Uyazi ukuthi umbono uzoba njani ngaphambi kokuba ujike ekhoneni. Uzithola usendaweni ebalulekile incwadi yokuqondisa eyibiza ngokuthi ayaziwa, ukhangwa khona okuthile okwandulela ucwaningo, futhi umi phambi kwayo awuzizwa umangele kodwa uzizwa wanelisekile ngokuthula ngokubuya. Lokhu kuhlukile ngokwezinto ezenzekayo ekuhambeni okulula okuza nokuhlangenwe nakho noma ukunaka. Kuqondile: imigwaqo ethile, izakhiwo ezithile, imibono ethile iphethe uphawu olungangabazeki lokuhlala kwangaphambili. Abahambi babika lokhu kakhulu emazweni ahambisana nempucuko yasendulo noma izifunda lapho bezwe khona ukukhangwa okunamandla okungachazeki kulo lonke impilo yabo. Ulwazi lokuhamba oluvelayo alufundwanga — luyatholwa. Umzimba uhamba endaweni umphefumulo owuyimephile komunye umzimba, kwenye ikhulu leminyaka, ngeminyaka yokuphila kwansuku zonke.

Ukufundisa okukhuthaza ekhaya

Inkumbulo yamandla omphefumulo ihlanganisa izimpawu zesikhala nezendawo ezakhiwe ngesikhathi sokuphila kokuhlala ezindaweni ezithile. Lapho uhamba emigwaqweni umuntu wakho wempilo edlule ahamba kuyo nsuku zonke iminyaka, umphefumulo uqaphela inkumbulo yesikhala futhi ivele njengolwazi lokuhamba, ukulindela, noma ukuqaphela. Umzwelo ohambisana nalokhu kuqaphela ngokuvamile akulona injabulo kodwa ukukhululeka — umuzwa ojwayelekile kakhulu wokubuyela endaweni eyakha isahluko esibalulekile sendaba yomphefumulo wakho. Izwe ozizwa ngalo ngale ndlela cishe lalingumphathi wokuzalwa kabusha okukodwa noma ngaphezulu lapho umphefumulo wakho wahlangabezana khona nezenzakalo ezibalulekile.

Indima yomuntu ozwa ngokuthi ungakwazi ukuthi ungakwazi ukuthi ungakwazi ukuthi ungakwazi ukuthi ungakwazi ukuthi ungakwazi ukuthi.

Umlumbi wempilo edlule angakwazi ukukhomba ukuzalwa kabusha okuthile okuhambisana nokuqaphela kwakho kwendawo futhi embule impilo owawuyiphila lapho — indima yakho, ubudlelwano, nezenzakalo ezenza leyo ndawo ijwayeleke kakhulu emphefumulweni wakho. Lokhu kuguqula ulwazi lokuhamba olungajwayelekile lube yingxenye enenjongo yomlando wempilo yomphefumulo wakho, futhi kaningi kuchaza ukuthi kungani uzizwa usekhaya ngokungachazeki esikweni elingelona elakho ngokuzalwa.