Ukuthola Izikhathi Zokuziphatha Nokuzwa Ukufana Nokuzwa Okungaphandle Kokwazi
Kuyilapho okukhuthazekayo kakhulu futhi kucatshangelwa kakhulu izikhathi zokwakha ngokomoya, izikhathi zokuzwa ukufana nokuphatha okungaphandle kokwazi — izikhathi ezithuthukayo lapho umbango phakathi kwakho futhi komhlaba uhluleka, futhi ubona ukuxhumana okungaqondakaliyo nomkhiqizo wokwazi. Lezo zikhathi zingakhulela amasekendi noma amahora, futhi zingakhethwa ngani uma uhlala ekukhuthazeni, ekhaya, ekwenzeni okukhuthaza, noma ngokuziphatha okungaqondakali. Ukuthiwa kwenziwa ngokwehluleka kwezinto eziningi zokuthanda, ukuphumula, ukufana ngani ngani, futhi ukwazi okungaphandle kokucabanga. Ulimi luyazimela ukuthi lwazi ukuthi lwazi lezo zikhathi ngoba zithinta ngaphandle kwezindlela zokucabanga. Abantu bathi lezo zikhathi zibizwa ngokuthi 'ngihlezi ekhaya,' 'ngiyazi lokho engikwazi ngokuphelele,' noma 'ngibona ukwazi okungaphandle kokwazi ngesikhathi esedlule.' Lezo zikhathi azizizo iziboniso, izithandwa, noma izimpawu zokuziphatha — ziziboniso zokuziphatha ezisebenza ngaphandle kokuphepha okwenzeka ngokujwayelekile.
Izimpawu & Amaphetho
Lezi zizo izimpawu eziphatheleneke kakhulu ezithathelwe ukuthi ukuthola izikhathi zokuziphatha nokuzwa ukufana nokuzwa okungaphandle kokwazi:
- Ukuthola izikhathi zokuziphatha ezithandayo, ezithandayo, futhi ezifanayo ezizwa njengokuthi zingcono kunazo zonke izikhathi zokwazi
- Ukuthiwa okukhuthazayo ukuthi umbango phakathi kwakho futhi komhlaba uhluleka okwesikhathi
- Ukuthiwa okukhuthazayo ukuthi konke kuyenzeka njengoba kumele — ukwamukela nokwazi okuphelele
- Ukuthiwa okukhuthazayo okungaphandle kokucabanga okuthiwa ngokuthi yonke imvelo iyafana
- Izinyembezi zokwedwa, ukukhuthaza, noma ukwazi ngesikhathi okuthiwa noma emva kokuthiwa
- Ukukhathazeka ekutheni abanye abantu bangakwazi ukuthi bathi ngani ngalokho okwenzekile ngoba ulimi lungaqondakali
Kwenziwa ngani ekupheleni kokuzulazisa
Ukuziphatha kwakho kuyasebenza ngaphandle kokuphepha, izindlela zokucabanga, futhi ukwazi okwenzeka ngesikhathi esijwayelekile. Ukuthiwa okukhuthazayo okukhuthaza, okubizwa ngabantu abaningi ezindleleni ezahlukahlukene ngenkathi bengabantu, njenge 'ground of being,' 'Tao,' 'Brahman,' noma 'inkosi' — lokho okungakhethwa uma umbango wokuziphatha wokuziphatha wokuziphatha wokuziphatha. Lezo zikhathi zokuziphatha zibonisa ukuthi yini ukuthiwa okukhuthaza: okungaphezu, okufanayo, okuthandayo, futhi okwazi. Ukuthiwa akukho ekhuthazwa ngomuntu wakho njenge zimpawu zokuziphatha noma zokucabanga — lokho okubonwa uma izindlela zokuphepha zomuntu zihluleka okwesikhathi.
Ukuhamba ngalokhu
Lezo zikhathi azikwazi ukuthi zikhethwe, kodwa zingakhiwa ngezindlela ezikhuthaza ukukhuthaza futhi zikhuphule — ukukhuthaza, ukucabanga, isikhathi esikhona, ukwenza okukhuthaza, futhi ukukhuthaza. Uma zithiwa, hluleka ukuziphepha ngokuphelele ekutheni ungaziphatha ngokuphelele. Emva kokuthiwa, bhala ngokuthiwa ngani ngani ngani. Ungakhethi ukuthiwa — ukudinga ukwazi okungaphandle kokwazi kungenza ukuthi kube yingozi. Futhi, hluleka ukuziphepha ngani ngani. Hluleka ukuthiwa ngani ngani. Hluleka ukuthiwa ngani ngani. Hluleka ukuthiwa ngani ngani.
Khuluma neNjabulazi Oqonda
Injabulazi ehlangene nokuqonda okwakhe okwethu okuthwasa kuyakuvumela ukuthi ahloniphe izimpawu zakho, athole indawo ohlala kuyo ekupheleni, futhi akuphakamisele ukuhlela okukhuthaza okukhethekile.
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Thola Uhlelo lokuthwasa okukhethekile
Injabulazi ekholelwa ekuthwaseni kokuzulazisa okwezulu kuyakuvumela ukuthi ahloniphe izinto ezithile ezihambelana nawe futhi akuphakamisele ukuhlela okukhethekile ekupheleni kwakho.